Nov 28, 2018

What I Wish I Knew- About Self Harm

November 28, 2018 0 Opinions

Hello friends and welcome to a new post. Well sort of. This is a repost.

*Warning- This post may have triggering effects, so read cautiously* 

Self harming is when you harm yourself on purpose. This can include cutting yourself, burning yourself, hitting yourself and many more.

I didn't know much about self harm when I started or that it was even a thing. I just liked the feeling.

If you self harm then please please seek help that way you can live a 'normal' life with no scars

Leave a comment down below telling me what you wish you knew before self harming

I wish I knew-  Self harm is an addiction

I wish I knew-  It won't just be a phase that I will grow out of

I wish I knew-  I didn't have to hide it from people I love

I wish I knew-   How happy it made me feel

I wish I knew-  How bad I felt after

I wish I knew-  Many many other people have the same addiction

I wish I knew-  That it could evolve into worse things

I wish I knew-   How much it would ruin my body

I wish I knew-    How much people would judge

I wish I knew-   The toughness of having to hide it from everyone thinking they will judge or hate me

I wish I knew-  That it is a very tough struggle overcoming self harm

I wish I knew-  That I am not crazy, I just need help

I wish I knew-  There were other ways of taking away my pain like talking to someone or writing it down

I wish I knew-  My mom would be upset when she found out

Check out my resources page here for help with self harm and more

Nov 26, 2018

Holiday Mental Health Tips

November 26, 2018 2 Opinions

Hello there and welcome to another post.

"It's the most wonderful time of the year" Yeah right. More like it's the most stressful time of the year. Time to make everything perfect and entertain family you only see this time of year because you really can't stand them. Of course it does not have to be stressful.

Some Tips For You


  Walk away to somewhere alone even if it is the bathroom or shower. Lock yourself in there and breath. This is great for when you are stressed or fighting or anytime you need to walk away.

Breath in and out. Repeat.


   Sounds dumb yes but it works. Take a deep breath in and out then count 1-6

Make a List-

    Nothing like being disorganized to make you even more stressed out.

Make a list of:
gifts you need to buy
food to make
decorations you need

Make a list of everything and anything you need to remember

Enjoy it:

Sure you may hate your family right now and want to kill them but you know you love them.

Remember that many people at the holidays don't have any friends or family to celebrate it with. So be happy that you do

Nov 11, 2018

Mini Wish and Ebay Haul

November 11, 2018 0 Opinions
Hello friends and welcome to another post.

Tis the season for shopping, eh?? If you are like me then any season is shopping season. 

I have noticed in my older age and my mom's influence, that my purchases have been more of what I need then what I want. Even though this haul, you may be like "but do you really need ..." That answer is yes and ssshh 

Some of these items are things in my room, which is of course is a sneak peak of Room Tour, which of course we know is coming in #blogmas My room is 70% done, though I shall still share it during #blogmas When I finish my room, I will show a full room tour also (2019) 

Enough with the chit-chat, I am sure you want to see my mini haul. None of which are sponsored, although I am getting money back for my puppy toy purchase. 

In the comments below tell me if you prefer Ebay or Wish. 


  Notebook This is just a fun book to get with your creative side

 Star Projector This works great with the aesthetic of my room which of course you will be seeing in Blogmas I tried to get this at Five Below but my local store didn't have it so I bought it on here

Five Below

 I use this Moon Lamp every night. I love the color changing. Alot of the times I will use green but I also love the purple/blue color

I love the idea of this Pillow since you can color it your own way. I also love the quote. Again great with the aesthetic of my room. Leave a comment below if you know the aesthetic (look at my blog)

  This I did not go into the store looking for. I went looking for a prompt journal but I really did not like it. I saw this Book so I looked inside and loved it. I want to do a whole review on Adam J Kurtz and his books when I get them all. Be sure to follow the blog so you can know when that will be up. Sometime in 2019


Be sure to use code -hggzhvp at checkout if you are new to Wish so you can 50% off your first order

   I got this Washi Tape mainly since it was cute and I wanted to put up my Dream wall sign with it. You can see a better image and the Dream sign here

For Halloween, I wanted to do some cute stickers with yellow glow in the dark nail polish. However my nail polish did not show up in time (nor is it here yet) but I was able to add the Stickers to my fingers. I still keep putting them on my thumbs even though it is way after Halloween. I want to purchase more for Christmas 

I also ordered a wolf wall art where you put little sequins on it to make it look 3d and cool, but it has not come yet. You will be able to see it at Blogmas all hung up


 *We got this cute rope toy from cher_idea on Instagram We love it. It came in just two days. We don't use the ball since Kobe tends to try and rip it up. Rope toys are great for dogs teeth and to keep them from ripping up all their toys. Nice and durable

Ok that is all I have. Which is your favorite that I bought?? Do you have any of these things?? Hope you have a great week. I will see you next Sunday for an all new post 


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