Aug 11, 2019

New Facts about Why Pressure Can be Good

August 11, 2019 0 Opinions

 Hey friends and welcome back to my blog.

   Today I wanted to talk about something important, Pressure. No, I am not talking about the pressure to use drugs/sex, I am talking about Pressure that has to do with blogging.

I was listening to Eminem new song Walk On Water https://youtu.be/n1WpP7iowLc

Basically, he talks about the pressure from his fans to make the music he once did. He adds more pressure on himself to please his fans and give them what they want. He tells his fans that he is not perfect. So they should stop expecting him to be. He is no Jesus.

As a blogger, we know a thing about pressure. To make the views of other bloggers in the same niche, to post what the viewers want, to post what we want, on time...


Do it this way or fail. Like a horrible bug on your shoulder constantly telling you what to do.

Ack but pressure can be a good thing. Hear me out on this one.

Some of us strive on pressure. Some work great when they have limited time to do something. Some fail (which is fine) Point is, that it helps us become stronger. 

Like every other lesson in life. Or roadblock. You get past the pressure and feel great.
Under pressure but what to do??

1. Take some time away from what is pressuring you. Even if it is just a few minutes to get some fresh air. Do it

2. Don't panic. It's ok to fail. In the end, it really won't matter.

The pressure being put on you can also tell you 'hey maybe this isn't the right path for you'. It can help you get out of a situation you don't like.
Don't let pressure define you. Don't let what you do under pressure define you. Everything will turn out ok.

That is all I have for this post today. #QOTB What are your feelings about pressure? Can it be a good thing? 

Aug 4, 2019

Top 8 Things to do When You are Stuck Inside

August 04, 2019 6 Opinions

It's raining.
It's pouring.
The old man is snoring.
He went to bed and bumped his head
and couldn't get up in the morning

When you are a kid, you don't realize how bad nursery rhymes are. Poor old man.
Not the point of this post haha.

I live in Alabama where it rains a lot. When it rains in Alabama, it pours.
So I am always stuck inside which can be a bummer. Since it's raining today, I decided to make a list of fun things you can do when it rains. 

This list includes things other than watching tv and playing video games :0 Shocking you can do other things than that, I know. So here comes some fun ideas.

1. You can play a game of cards
  Cards are a great thing to keep around for when things get boring. They are inexpensive and available at most stores

2. Play Tic Tac Toe

  A simple game but fun game. Make it harder and longer by making the # with more - lines and longer | lines 


3. Play A Drinking Game

  Make sure you are old enough. Drink every time someone loses at Tic Tac Toe

4. Take a nap

  I love sleeping with the sound of rain

5. Play Pictionary or any other board game

   Another game that involves a paper & pen. Just draw something and have the other person guess what it is

6. Think of words that are in RAINSTORM
  How many different words can you find

7. Write

 You can write what you would rather be doing than being bored, a poem about the rain or even a story

8. Bake 

 Something that you have never made before and always wanted to try

So there you have just a few things to do when you are stuck inside #QOTB What is your favorite thing to do when you are stuck indoors?? Leave it down in the comments so we can get some new ideas :)

Jul 28, 2019

Why It Is Important to Have a Staycation

July 28, 2019

The Maldives- a beautiful south Asian tropical island with warm weather, lush beaches and beautiful oceans. A dream vacation for most. 

A dream in which, for most people will not come true. The island as beautiful as it is, is also very expensive to get to and stay. So it stays a dream. 

Many are in desperate need of a vacation. Either from work or life or even both. Many can not afford to go anywhere on vacation due to lack of financial aid. 

However I can offer you a great alternative, it is called A STAYCATION

A staycation is one where you stay in your own city. You can either stay at home, a hotel or even rent a place from Airbnb

Sure it may not be the tropical dream vacation you wish for, but it relieves the stresses of life. 

Which brings me to my post 

1. It is cheaper

   A trip to the Maldives can cost upward of $1000 and that is only for a flight there. Not talking about the hotel, food, shopping or anything else you wish to do.

 Meanwhile, a night at Motel 6 will only cost $43

2. You can do more things since it is cheaper

      Since you are saving all this money, you can afford a fancy restaurant, spa, shopping spree, good hotel... Do something you never done before in your city. 

Or you can even put the money you save away for that dream vacation

3. Still feels like a vacation

     Don't tell anyone where you are. You can stay indoors and hide away from all the troubles bother you. 

I know when I was homeless and stay at a motel, it felt like I was on vacation. I know weird right since I was homeless and all?? However, I was away from people I knew. Not to mention I think hotel stays always feel like a vacay.

4. You can rent a nice place on Airbnb

    No, this post is not sponsored by them 😩😩 I just think this is a great website to find places to rent. Stay somewhere no one knows about

So there you have it. Those are just some of the many, many reasons to have a staycation. I know it has become popular due to people having less money and more bills to pay. If done right, then it could be even better (or close to it) your dream vacation. 

If you enjoyed this post then make sure to share it and comment below. I will see you next time. Stay wonderful xx


Jul 21, 2019

New and Improved Ways to Make Someone Feel Great

July 21, 2019 0 Opinions

Hey friends and welcome back to my blog :)

   When we see our friends or someone else in a bad mood, we want to come to their rescue. Sometimes knowing what to do to put them in better spirits can be difficult. 

   Saying the wrong thing can make things even worse. Maybe they are not the type of person who likes hugs or wants affection. So what are you to do to make the person feel better? When you want to help someone but are scared of their reaction. Have no fear since I am here to help. I am a person who does not want a hug. My mom is the type of person where you can say the wrong thing and it makes things 10times worse. 

With that being said, let us get on with the post.

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Jul 14, 2019

How Blogging Helps Social Anxiety

July 14, 2019 5 Opinions

Hey friends and welcome back to my blog :)

  If you are a blogger then you know that blogging has so many benefits. It can help gain friends, money and more. But did you know it can also help with mental health?? Yes, it is true.

It is a proven fact that blogging can help with stress, depression and many other mental issues since people are online talking about the same thing that you are. You don't feel so alone while reading blogs. When you start blogging, it can help with your mental health also.

 It can be your way to connect with people. It can be your out-lit. It can help heal the illness in a tiny way or for a tiny bit.

 Sure it may also make your depression slightly worse since you can get hate comments or people who don't like your blog. Take those as something to improve on and not hate. I will do more post about blogging and helping or hurting with mental health. If you would like to see a certain topic on that or certain tips then feel free to leave it in the comments. 

If you want to read how blogging can help your social media more in depth, then please keep reading.

Has blogging helped your social anxiety in any way? Comment down below if it has 

Being a blogger has helped me actually have conversations with people :0 This which I normally don't do in normal life. I am still bad at making conversation past 4 lines but I am slowly improving with this. I have had more conversations due to blogging then I have had in the past 8 years. I still then freak out right after the 4 line conversation. Like did I really just have such a big conversation with a random stranger?? Then I will just get off the message, like running away.

 I do get anxious when I see people comment on my blog. It isn't because I think what if they put something mean (I like if someone has something critical to say to me since it will help me be better) but more that someone noticed. They took their time out to comment on my blog :0 Some person like breathing has actually read or at least looked at my post.

 Sometimes my thinking people online are robots just does not work. Yes, I think people online are robots so I don't have to think about their emotions when they read what I write. With blogging, this really does not help. With the comments, you can tell people are not robots. They are people who actually think and feel something when reading your post.

If you have social anxiety and blog then it is really a big accomplishment 

 since you are putting yourself out there for random strangers to judge. Blogging is really like public speaking since you can wind up speaking (typing) in front of a large audience if you have one. Luckily for me, my audience is only like 100.

I am not saying that blogging will cure your social anxiety or that you will be able to go outside and talk to random strangers, but if you blog then it is like taking that little step to going outside. You still have that comfort of being at home (or wherever you blog) and being behind a computer screen.

Jul 7, 2019

5 Things to Quit Doing Right Now

July 07, 2019 15 Opinions

Hey friends and welcome back to my blog.

  Life is hard. We know that. We don't accept that but we know it. There are ways we can fix this. We can change our looks, our friends, our environment... We can change basically anything we want to make life better.

 The main thing we need to do is quit some of the things we do. Some things can be toxic not only for yourself but for those around you. I bet there is someone that looks up to you. This could be a friend, kids or even animals. The last thing you want to do is set a bad example for them. Even if you don't know that you are.

Which is why I made this list of things that you need to stop doing. Tell your friends to stop doing these also. They are not good for your mental health or physical health.

I did not include anything like smoking, drinking... More on the mental side. I do wish people would stop smoking as it will hurt your lungs. However, that is someone's choice and not mine

 So if you want to know the 5 things to quit then keep reading on :)

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